For centuries the robust cultural attributes of the indian society has caught the imagination of the westerns and in the far east alike and for that a major share of credit goes to the women of the country who had been an integral founding limb of this heritage. If today the India we live in is viewed as colourful and vibrant and relatively safe in a volatile geographical zone then anyone with the slightest understanding of the community’s societal ethos will not find it difficult to unearth the secret behind the recipe. With the mushrooming of media channels, for the dearth of topics the debate centred on women’s inequality status in a male dominated society might have found an entry into our living rooms but the fact of the matter is these agendas are superficial and have looked politically driven at times. Any man worth his salt is fully aware of the opposite gender’s overall contribution to the exercise of society building and its significance in the History Books.
Today, the role has by no margin diminished; if at all with india on its way towards becoming a new age global economies go to market, the influence has only increased by immeasurable standards which at times has become difficult for a section of shallow minded individuals to come to term with.
Power and money may be the two biggest lure that drives a man’s business ambition but the tool to attainment lies in the emotional stability and calmness of mind and that is enabled through the chain of relationships that the man shares with the special women in his life. If it is the mother who sacrifices her ways of leading life to accommodate the interests of a growing kid then the luckier ones find a best friend in their sister and as life evolves the girlfriend, for the lack of a better word and then the wife becomes the best companion to confide to. The amount of Love and affection that encompasses these relationship is directly proportional to anyone’s professional success.
An essence of a woman who is the nurturer lies in her ability to take care, love and shower affection and emphatically allow herself to absorb the emotional downpour of anyone who opens up their heart to her. It is her nature that provides the basis of harmonious existence in the society and to distrust and disrespect her stature and compassionate qualities is not only a shame but is a harbinger of deep loss of happiness to the community at large. Delicacy is a virtue that has been God gifted to women and for any man filled in abundance of it around him is a fortunate soul and for those who fail to realize this is either lunatics or has lost their sense for taste and judgement.
From an Indian context the society has changed more in the last twenty years than in the last two hundred years. In a free for all education set up to create notions of divide between two genders will not only alienate realities from fantasies but will also make it difficult for the future generations of women to accept the bargain for which it is pivotal for people across political lines and poverty lines to realize the larger significance of women in the continuous exercise of society building beyond being home makers. Not that her profile inside the house has changed but her need outside has increased and to allow her to fulfill her new ambitions and dreams along with the raising kids and cooking meals is a trend that need to be respected and given equal space to.
The clear heart and aspiring mind of a modern woman makes the society an elated space and to be breathing the same air is an honour and privilege and calls for life line celebrating period.